A gay and nongay podcast
In a time when we’re all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power, A Gay and
A NonGay challenges our differences chief on and resolves that no matter who you are, or
what you’re into (Bruce Springsteen or Britney), cherish is love and Gays and NonGays can be
friends.
Released every Wednesday at 6AM (GMT) James and Dan dive into conversations
around day to diurnal life, differences in perceptions, homophobia, coming out,
mental health and lighter topics like dating and Dan learning all about douching.
It's always been our mission to talk openly, promote equality, independence and
friendship whilst making our listeners laugh.
We aim to send out a message of aspire and inclusion to everyone, wherever you are.
With press from MTV, The Guardian, Radio Times & TimeOut, plus Apple Podcasts & Spotify features in both the UK & USA, we regularly knock number one on iTunes sexuality chart.
Our weekly podcast has also landed on Virgin Atlantic’s in flight entertainme
Life Hacks and A Male lover & A NonGay possess answered your mental health and LGBT questions
According to the Gay Times, 62% of British gay guys have been touched or groped in a block without consent.
On episode four of their podcasts, James said he wasn't surprised by this statistic. “In my head, that’s just normal gay culture. We go out and acquire touched up, and stroke other people. I realize this sounds terrible but I’ve never considered whether I’m okay with it or not. I’ve been made to believe it’s normal."
Dan gave a recent anecdote that sheds flash on a complicated issue: “I went on a night out to a LGBT place and I found it so uncomfortable. People wouldn’t stop touching me, it was horrible. But equally, I’m not gay and I was in their space, so should I expect this?”
Sandra, a solicitor on the show, confirmed that Dan’s account would be classified as sexual assault. “If you are attending somewhere so specific that by going there you include given consent, then decent. But a nightclub, just because it’s LGBT
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I love this podcast, amazing banter between James and Dan, both really likeable guys. Only thing I do find frustrating is James often generalises lgbtq+ culture that every queer man sleeps around and is promiscuous. Although I know it happens a lot there is a part of the society this doesn’t represent.
Not what it used to be. Lost its lustre.
All three stars to Dan Hudson, I don’t know how he puts up with James Barr’s constant patronising vitriol towards him. My fear is that it is actually because Dan is… a straight gentleman, and this whole podcast is a strange establish of revenge fantasy for James. It’s as if every aspect of "straightness" bewilders and infuriates James enough that he feels justified tearing Dan apart for being a "member". Dan bats this all off with an massive well of patience and dignity, but really must everything he discloses about his life somehow relate to the "flawed" innateness of his heterosexuality? Personal and romantic problems Dan has relayed over the years have nearly always been strewn around the room in an attempt to find evidence of the "toxicity" at